Remembering Zali Arnold, z”l

Zali Arnold z"l serving in the IDF

In late July, our Yeshiva suffered the heartbreaking loss of a dear talmid and friend to so many, Zali Arnold, z"l, who tragically passed away at the very young age of 23.

A proud graduate of FYHS in 2020, Zali possessed a brilliant mind for both Torah and general studies. Yet his true greatness lay in his kindness, compassion, and sincerity—he was an authentic eved Hashem whose dedication to his family, friends, and Yeshiva knew no bounds.

During his years at FYHS and beyond, Zali left his mark in countless ways. He was a Yeshivas HaKayitz counselor, the organizer of numerous Yeshiva programs, activities, and sports, and a Torah Bowl trivia legend. (No one who saw it in person will ever forget when Zali, z"l, almost single-handedly won the Shabbos afternoon trivia tournament for FYHS at its first Yeshiva University Sarachek basketball tournament in 2019—including correctly answering the championship-winning question.)

His sheer intellect, combined with an uncanny ability to develop compelling arguments on everything from Yeshiva programming to the prices in our food service, commanded the respect of both peers and faculty. Yet Zali carried himself with remarkable humility, simply wanting to be “one of the guys.” His sincerity and positive outlook made him admired by all and forged everlasting friendships.

Zali’s love for Eretz Yisrael ran deep. After FYHS, he learned for three years at Yeshivat Har Etzion (“The Gush”) before joining the IDF as a lone soldier. After October 7th, he played a crucial role in helping Tzahal manage the database of thousands of chayalim called to defend Klal Yisrael.

Those who knew Zali remember much more than his accomplishments—they remember the way he lived. He stood up for what was right, especially in matters between people. He was friendly with everyone, breaking down barriers between ages and groups. He had a gift for making others smile, for including those who felt left out, and for drawing out the unique strengths of the people around him. He put family first, was always ready to help others—even in pain—and never complained about his own struggles. His friends and classmates remember him as brilliant yet unassuming, decisive yet gentle, and a person who truly enjoyed life while making it better for everyone else.

On Wednesday night, July 24th, during the week of shiva, the FYHS Class of 2020 gathered at Bais Medrash Mikor Hachaim to honor Zali’s memory. From 8:30–9:30 PM, participants learned l’ilui nishmas Shneur Zalman Hakohein z"l ben Yaakov Yishayahu, followed by Maariv. Refreshments allowed attendees to make brachos in his merit, and afterward there were zemiros, divrei chizuk, and moving words from friends who shared what Zali meant to them.

In addition, later that week, Yeshivas HaKayitz held a special learning session and siyum in his memory before Tisha B’Av. The program was marked by heartfelt reflections from one of his best friends, Ari Schuman, who spoke movingly about Zali’s life, values, and enduring impact.

As the Tosher Rebbe taught, whatever someone did in their lifetime, they continue to do with even greater strength after they pass on. May the merit of Zali's neshama continue to bring simcha into people’s lives, inspire others to discover and use their unique abilities, and serve as a source of protection and blessing for his family and friends.

We join our entire Yeshiva family in mourning this profound loss and extend nechama to the Arnold family during this difficult time.

Tehei Nishmaso Tzerura b’Tzror Hachayim.